Social media can't replace whats real

The interaction of people in our society has changed considerably in the last 50 years. My in-laws talk about how people used to get together.

My mother-in-law was especially fond of doing card parties and inviting everyone over. These parties always involved food and since she didn’t work she had time to plan activities weeks in advance.

Today, things are different. In a majority of households, both parents work full-time and all the extra time and energy goes to taking care of family needs.

It becomes a juggling act to see who gets what kid to what activity. Dinner doesn’t always happen at the family table and there is always that nasty homework time to fit in.

These activities don’t leave much time for social get-togethers and even when we do plan activities with friends, we are still distracted by our own responsibilities.

I know my cell phone is always reminding me that I am stretched very thin.

Because of all these things, people interact with their friends over social media which can be good or bad.

On the positive side, Twitter, Facebook and Skype allow both adults and kids to stay connected.

We can share pictures, events, recipes and activities. We can reach across the miles to stay in touch with relatives that we otherwise might not be able to see.

On the other hand, I know from personal experience that using Skype when I am traveling doesn’t fulfill my need to hug my grandchild or kiss my husband good-bye. I need the one-on-one interaction with my people to be happy.

In 2 John 1:12 it says, “Though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead I hope to come to you and talk face to face, so that our joy may be complete.”

This shows us that it is biblical to spend time together; fellowship.

As Christians we shouldn’t let social media take our attention away from God. If social media is the first thing we do every morning or the last thing we do every night, when do we have time for God?

The Bible reminds us that Christians should never let anything come between them and their relationship with their Creator. Talking with God is something that we all need to do in a very personal way. We need to show God respect.

In James 4 it says to “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.”

You can’t do that through Facebook or on any electronic device. You have to actually make time to be with God.

Christians also need to remember to use social media responsively. It is wonderful tool when used correctly but very hurtful and destructive when used in a negative way.

Make sure you are a positive force on social media. Use your accounts to spread God’s word and lift people up. Be the face of God in your community.

Most importantly, talk to God. Remember, prayer was the first wireless connection.